How does a 14 year old guy get a girl to like him? PLEASE help!?

I am a 14 year old guy and i really like this girl... I am not incredibly good looking ( i have a 'larger than normal' nose), I wear cool glasses, and I have braces until August (2007) but not the ugliest guy in the world. I am on the artsy side, and dress alot more fashionable ("eccentric" to normal people). I have medium spiked hair that has blonde highlights.

As for personality, I am more on the non-athletic, artsy, emotional guy. I am an actor, and I love being different, but not retarded weird. I DO read 'girlier' magazines (Vogue, J-14, Teen Vogue, etc.) I think I am funny! lol I definately dont sweat the small stuff. In my opinion I am a really nice guy...

But nearly every girl I know always falls for the jock or more athletic, and stereotypical guy! They all think i am great (at least I hope ... lol) but none of them have ever really like liked me.

I need desperate help! Do I need to act more like the other guys? Or am I just too ugly? Too skinny? Too weird? Too nice? Help

How does a 14 year old guy get a girl to like him? PLEASE help!?

Awww...you're fine. The best way to get a girl to like you is by being yourself. If you change for her, you're not going to change for your better nor are you going to remain that way for the rest of your life. Honesty is important in a relationship and the best way by starting a healthy one, is by being yourself. Good luck!

How does a 14 year old guy get a girl to like him? PLEASE help!?

Jump a bum with a skateboard.

For reals, I'll be blunt

Are you fat? Cuz you can kiss your chances good by if your a fat one. No chick at that age would ever be caught dead with a big boy. So lose weight if you're fat. Likewise, pushup sit up and cardio never hurt anyone it'll only make you look better and more fit.

Next, whats she into? And is that what you're into? If you really want to land this girl you need to be in the same social club as her. And you need to be atleast beta or charlie male of the group. Anything less than delta and you better pray she finds you funny and even that you'll need to be good looking.

Girls are not always looking for jocks. Jocks have confidence. And they have jock buddies, they do macho things, high fiving goofing off. They look like they're in their elements. And that attracts a girl. You just need to be cool, be confident, don't give out creepy vibes. Be friends with her friends and work your way in.

Finally kill competitors. Find out who she's into, or who is into her. This is war and your goal is to win. This is tricky because it can backfire on you, so you need to be a CIA ninja... On crack. Find dirt, find weaknesses. Spread rumors if you have to. Or if you know a girl who is into him, throw her at him. Be discreet, use friends and connections. This works in 2 ways, the girl and the guy goes out and your problems are over, or he ignores her and he'll look like a punk. When the ladder happens and people bring it up, just say "What a punk!" and bam.

Theres alot of pretending in this plan, but if she's not into you now chances are she'll never be unless you change your ways. So good luck.

How does a 14 year old guy get a girl to like him? PLEASE help!?

omg wow, where have u been all my life? most girls seem to go for the jock guys. art guys are so much harder to find, which makes them more special. all u need to do is be yourself, maybe u are not THE GUY for some girls, but u will to the right one. who knows maybe if u ever become a proffesional actor those girls will be saying i wih i dated him... and there is nothing wrong with a guy reading girly magazines. it just means he's better understanding of girls and a better boyfriend, oh well, hope this helped :D

How does a 14 year old guy get a girl to like him? PLEASE help!?

aww hun..be yourself. the girls you're going for are probably too stuck on themselves to see your natural charm. you seem intelligent and sweet and the right girl will come to you. try going for girls that seem interested in the same things you are. don't change for anybody. you can only be yourself otherwise you'd be someone else.

How does a 14 year old guy get a girl to like him? PLEASE help!?

Just be confident and when you're talking to a girl that you like make it clear that you're interested in her and not just trying to be a friend. Also, maybe you should lift weights during the summer.

How does a 14 year old guy get a girl to like him? PLEASE help!?

be yourself and a lil bit more outgoing to get sum girls attention, b/c once u have a few girls attention u got a lot more.. so just be nice, open doors, help dem wit hw, say jokes, ask for numbers dont be afraid 2 get rejected..or betta yet give a 1 special girl your number

How does a 14 year old guy get a girl to like him? PLEASE help!?

Ahh High school. How I do miss those days! Listen bud this'll be blunt and maybe even a little disappointing, but it's the HONEST truth. H.S will either be the best or worst time of your life. What it will be, for sure, is a building block for what you will become in the next decade or so. Your experiences, whether good or awful, will make you decide on what kind of guy you want to be. In order to find out you'll need to gain some experience. Just go out there, be yourself. Everyone is just as clueless and insecure as the next person waiting for sloppy joes in the lunch line. Just talk to her and listen... I can't say that enough. "LISTEN" to her. You'll start noticing if she really likes you if she starts carrying the conversation . A girl who wants nothing to do with you, will answer you with "yes" and "no" and all the other close ended answers. They'll want the conversation to end ASAP. Once you have a routine conversation established, like lets say by her locker after 4th period where u have 10 mins before the next class, start hinting on things u like. Food and movies are always a good one. If your talking routinely by now, you must have something in common, find what that is and build on it. She likes sundaes? Well ask her to go have a sundae w/ you at your local hang out. Dont be awkward with it either, just ask like it came from nowhere and be confident like you always knew she'd day yes.... There's the first step, now just relax and enjoy the journey. Success or failure, it doesnt matter. You're living life experiences. ;) .... Don't worry about the jocks and pretty boys. Your 14. Give it 10 years and many of those guys will be overweight and alone. You need to keep youself in a positive outlook in life. Always improving, always hungry. Learn from your mistakes, and trust me mistakes are waiting for you throughout H.S. Trial and error is the best way to learn. Again H.S will either be the worst or best time of your life. Might as well try and make it the best .... Stay confident. Happy hunting my man, there'll be so much more of it!